This case is not unique. When it comes to women and marriage rights, we have been in this fight for hundreds of years. This case not only defines marriage rights but it also defines women's rights for equality and against violence against women in the US and around the world. After reading this case I made the connection that it seems that whenever women ask for rights, it means that we are taking some away from others. For example, under Title 9, discrimination based on gender, marital, or parental status in education is prohibited, particularly in sports. However, "this criterion means that women and girls are often blamed for cuts to men's sports" (Seely, pg.109). Why is it that we can't ask for rights without being considered selfish or putting ourselves before other institutions like patriarchy or religion? Also, taking away women's marriage rights is also conected to violence against women such as the stoning of women accused of adultery in some Middle East regions and marriage rape. In the US, marital rape wasn't considered a crime in all 50 states until 1993 and in 2005, 33 percent of women were murdered by their boyfriends or husbands (Kirk/Okazawa-Rey pg.258). Marriage rights are directly connected to women's rights for equality and violence against women. With this case, it is so much more than alimony that is on the line; its women's lives.
When thinking of a solution to this problem, our group came up with a transnational feminist solution that we believe will appease both sides of the spectrum (women's rights and minority religions rights and personal laws). We didnt want to essentially "rape" Muslim culture by telling them that their personal laws are invalid in favor of a national integration approach. We also knew that it would be impractical to try and press for one uniform civil code when there are so many small religious communities with different laws and ideals. So we proposed the option of enacting the Special Marriages Act of 1954 which offers couples a non-religious alternative to personal laws (Jenkins, pg.8). With this a couple could have three choices. They could choose to get married through the state law under which women in particular would be eligible for benefits such as maintenance under the Special Marriages Act. If a couple chooses to get married through their religious community alone, they must abide by their personal laws. The third option is getting married through the state and through the church, in which upon the dissolvement of the marriage the woman is still protected under state law. We also came up with two exemptions undr this Civil Code, one of them being a grandfather clause and the other called the Coercive Marriage Clause. Under the grandfather clause, women who have gotten married prior to the enacting of this civil code are still eligible to have their marriage recognized by the state and be protected under the Special Marriages Act. The Coercive Marriage Clause is for women who have been coerced to get married through the church alone, under which they would have to show proof that they were coerced before they could be recognized by the state. This Civil Code would protect women's marriage rights without forcing it upon the minority religions and invalidating their personal laws. More importantly it offers women options instead of telling them they're on their own.
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Works Cited:
Kirk, Gwyn, and Margo Okazawa-Rey. Women's Lives Multicultural Perspectives. 5th. New York, NY: McGraw-Hill, 1998. p.258. Print.
Seely, Megan. Fight Like A Girl. 1st. New York, NY: New York University Press, 2007. 109. Print.
Jenkins, Laura Dudley. "Shah Bano: Muslim Women's Rights Case Study." (2000): p.2-8. Print.
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